Monday, March 28, 2011
Saturday, March 19, 2011
From Danny’s Little Sister (OK, Younger Sister)
I was blessed to grow up in a home filled with love, laughter, and great conversation. I was further blessed with two most excellent brothers! The oldest was Danny Mayo.
The best word I can think of to describe Dan is thoughtful. He had this huge file cabinet in his head and he had files in it for everyone he ever talked with. You could have a casual conversation with him about some shared interest and days, or months, or even years later you might get a call or a note or an e-mail about the subject and be amazed that he remembered something from a casual conversation like that. I always looked forward to the phone calls that started out “Hey sis, I saw something today I thought you would like…” They made me feel special! I think Dan really was in his element when e-mail became widespread. I would frequently start my day with a giggle when I checked my e-mail and found some cartoon in questionable taste that he’d sent me at three o’clock in the morning. Since we lost him I’ve gone through some of his things looking for information and found so many items printed from the internet, torn from a magazine or jotted down and it makes me sad that someone is going to miss their “tidbit from Danny”.
Like our father, Joe, Danny was a natural leader. He had a knack for seeing potential in people and figuring out how to get the best effort they had to give. With ladies he was more likely to lead by inclusion. He would just generate enough enthusiasm for a project that we all wanted to help. Dan grew up surrounded by strong and intelligent women, primarily our mother, JoAnn, but our grandmother and some special aunts and other ladies as well. He treated women as equals in work and play but felt we were always to be protected. I don’t remember a time when he didn’t have really good female friends, even when he was a little boy. It’s an old fashioned word but Dan was chivalrous. He would hold doors and chairs, take your elbow or put his hand on your back when you crossed the street or climbed stairs, and made so many other gentlemanly gestures. I’ve worked side by side with Danny doing things that are not traditionally female activities and he was always sensitive enough to let me try and helped where he could and encouraged where he could, and was never condescending. He would draw the line if he felt you were trying to do too much or putting yourself in jeopardy. If I was getting ready to pick up something icky or too heavy he would nudge me out of the way with his hip and say, “Just get out of the way sis, I’ve got this.” He cherished all women.
With men he led by example. He would never ask anyone to do more than, or even as much as he was willing to do himself. It was a point of pride to him to help other people live up to their potential and he would instruct where necessary, assist when necessary, and harangue when he thought it was appropriate. So many new friends I’ve been able to share with Danny since his passing have mentioned him being a teacher, a mentor, a father, a brother, and so many have told me they felt they were better people for knowing Dan. Those are the ones who “got” Danny. For those of you who might have felt that Dan was too harsh a taskmaster, too hard on people, or expected too much I advise you to look back at a time when you felt that way and listen with your heart. If Danny pushed you and demanded your best and griped at you until he got it, it’s because he knew what you could accomplish and wanted you to see it too. And at the moment he stopped griping and let you lay down your tools, your heart should hear him saying, “Well done, I’m proud of you.”
Growing up in a home with “good men” like my dad and my brother Danny and our brother Mike, who is different but no less excellent than Dan, prepared me to find Jack, the “good man” I married. I’ve always been able to see traits from the past generation in Dan; the way he would laugh sometimes or the way he would greet people or the way he wouldn’t back down in a spirited discussion. Sometimes in my own sons and daughter, my nieces and nephew, my brother and his wife, my husband, and in my new friends that were Danny’s work family I can see something of Danny and it makes me happy that he’s still alive in us all.
Debbie Dooley
The best word I can think of to describe Dan is thoughtful. He had this huge file cabinet in his head and he had files in it for everyone he ever talked with. You could have a casual conversation with him about some shared interest and days, or months, or even years later you might get a call or a note or an e-mail about the subject and be amazed that he remembered something from a casual conversation like that. I always looked forward to the phone calls that started out “Hey sis, I saw something today I thought you would like…” They made me feel special! I think Dan really was in his element when e-mail became widespread. I would frequently start my day with a giggle when I checked my e-mail and found some cartoon in questionable taste that he’d sent me at three o’clock in the morning. Since we lost him I’ve gone through some of his things looking for information and found so many items printed from the internet, torn from a magazine or jotted down and it makes me sad that someone is going to miss their “tidbit from Danny”.
Like our father, Joe, Danny was a natural leader. He had a knack for seeing potential in people and figuring out how to get the best effort they had to give. With ladies he was more likely to lead by inclusion. He would just generate enough enthusiasm for a project that we all wanted to help. Dan grew up surrounded by strong and intelligent women, primarily our mother, JoAnn, but our grandmother and some special aunts and other ladies as well. He treated women as equals in work and play but felt we were always to be protected. I don’t remember a time when he didn’t have really good female friends, even when he was a little boy. It’s an old fashioned word but Dan was chivalrous. He would hold doors and chairs, take your elbow or put his hand on your back when you crossed the street or climbed stairs, and made so many other gentlemanly gestures. I’ve worked side by side with Danny doing things that are not traditionally female activities and he was always sensitive enough to let me try and helped where he could and encouraged where he could, and was never condescending. He would draw the line if he felt you were trying to do too much or putting yourself in jeopardy. If I was getting ready to pick up something icky or too heavy he would nudge me out of the way with his hip and say, “Just get out of the way sis, I’ve got this.” He cherished all women.
With men he led by example. He would never ask anyone to do more than, or even as much as he was willing to do himself. It was a point of pride to him to help other people live up to their potential and he would instruct where necessary, assist when necessary, and harangue when he thought it was appropriate. So many new friends I’ve been able to share with Danny since his passing have mentioned him being a teacher, a mentor, a father, a brother, and so many have told me they felt they were better people for knowing Dan. Those are the ones who “got” Danny. For those of you who might have felt that Dan was too harsh a taskmaster, too hard on people, or expected too much I advise you to look back at a time when you felt that way and listen with your heart. If Danny pushed you and demanded your best and griped at you until he got it, it’s because he knew what you could accomplish and wanted you to see it too. And at the moment he stopped griping and let you lay down your tools, your heart should hear him saying, “Well done, I’m proud of you.”
Growing up in a home with “good men” like my dad and my brother Danny and our brother Mike, who is different but no less excellent than Dan, prepared me to find Jack, the “good man” I married. I’ve always been able to see traits from the past generation in Dan; the way he would laugh sometimes or the way he would greet people or the way he wouldn’t back down in a spirited discussion. Sometimes in my own sons and daughter, my nieces and nephew, my brother and his wife, my husband, and in my new friends that were Danny’s work family I can see something of Danny and it makes me happy that he’s still alive in us all.
Debbie Dooley
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Michael Waggoner
Danny worked for me at Cowtown Ballroom and of course in all the other ventures we did from the Midland Theatre to Arrowhead Stadium back in the 1970’s. I spoke with him last year and he sounded super. I was saddened to hear about his passing.
…this is difficult because Danny was one of those extra special people who would help everybody else before himself.
-mw
…this is difficult because Danny was one of those extra special people who would help everybody else before himself.
-mw
Dan Ayers - ETCP
Jeremy,
I was quite sad this morning to hear about Danny. I've known him for about 10 years, mostly through local 31 work. Thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Dan Ayers - ETCP
I was quite sad this morning to hear about Danny. I've known him for about 10 years, mostly through local 31 work. Thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Dan Ayers - ETCP
Kim Walker, CMP
Jeremy – I was so sad to hear about Dan – he was and ever will be one of the best lighting directors around – not to mention his creativity. I was looking forward to getting together with Dan and your team in May – I’m so sorry for this devastating loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DSS family, Jeremy.
Warmest regards,
Kim Walker, CMP
Kim Hoffman
Jeremy,
Thank you for this beautifully written Memorial, you captured Dan's true being- he would be pleased ~
Dan was so special to me, when I think of the more than a decade that we worked side by side to produce Fashion Shows at the Music Hall and Midland Theatre it is no wonder we became so close.
His level of creativity and imagination was so far out there that I knew I trusted him when he would describe a set or lighting for a scene, and it sounded so bizarre...but because it was Dan I would say "let's go with it," it ended up being my favorite segment of the Show and he Loved hearing the crowds response and me smiling from ear to ear! He loved his work...he gave every show his all. he was a consummate professional!
Sincerely,
Kim Hoffman
Thank you for this beautifully written Memorial, you captured Dan's true being- he would be pleased ~
Dan was so special to me, when I think of the more than a decade that we worked side by side to produce Fashion Shows at the Music Hall and Midland Theatre it is no wonder we became so close.
His level of creativity and imagination was so far out there that I knew I trusted him when he would describe a set or lighting for a scene, and it sounded so bizarre...but because it was Dan I would say "let's go with it," it ended up being my favorite segment of the Show and he Loved hearing the crowds response and me smiling from ear to ear! He loved his work...he gave every show his all. he was a consummate professional!
Sincerely,
Kim Hoffman
Keli O'Neill Wenzel
Hi Jeremy -
Sorry to hear about the passing of Danny Mayo. Please know that you and your company are in my thoughts and prayers.
Keli O'Neill Wenzel
Sorry to hear about the passing of Danny Mayo. Please know that you and your company are in my thoughts and prayers.
Keli O'Neill Wenzel
Keith Kankovsky
I am so sorry for the untimely passing of our friend Dan Mayo. Our prayers for Dan's family and friends seem to be all we can offer at this point, along with our sincere appreciation for having the good fortune to know him these last ten years or so. It was Dan who called me when he joined DSS to convince me that it would be worth any risk to work directly together again. He was right. We have had not only great business dealings with your company but have also found ourselves among friends. The 'face of Apollo' in Kansas was often that of Dan Mayo, and for that we celebrate.
As you've mentioned in your blog post, Dan will be impossible to replace as a coworker, mentor and friend. The shuffling of responsibilities at DSS can be neither easy nor enjoyable. We would like to assist however possible during this transitional time. With whom shall we direct email correspondence regarding lighting expendables?
Please accept my most sincere sympathies as we share your sorrow,
Keith Kankovsky
As you've mentioned in your blog post, Dan will be impossible to replace as a coworker, mentor and friend. The shuffling of responsibilities at DSS can be neither easy nor enjoyable. We would like to assist however possible during this transitional time. With whom shall we direct email correspondence regarding lighting expendables?
Please accept my most sincere sympathies as we share your sorrow,
Keith Kankovsky
braxton
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Danny. I only worked with him a few times - but in those few times I think I learned about him what you so eloquently posted on your website. He was a great man who won't soon be forgotten.
Brad
I just got back in from North Carolina and heard of Danny's untimely passing. Please accept and pass along my condolences from me and Downhome. As soon as you know of arrangements for services, I'd like to know. If at all possible I would like to attend.
Caleb
I just read the post on the DSS website about Dan. He was a wonderful mentor to me and an inspiration to work harder and be more creative. Can you let me know if there is anything that I can do to show my support for his family/friends?
Thank you,
Caleb
Thank you,
Caleb
Kathy Haverkamp & BJ Haverkamp
I am reaching out to you with warmest thoughts and care in the loss of Dan. I wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you and your DSS family. I know that Dan is a part of you and everyone there and always will be. I am feeling a great sadness with you and will miss him so much. He has always been a part of my life and my son, BJ's and always will be. BJ holds Dan in his heart as the greatest mentor of his life. I feel so honored that he is a part of my life, so am trying very hard to deal with the pain of him being gone and at the same time feeling honored that he became a part of my life and will always be there. Dan's never ending ability to give to us will stay with us, his witty nature and non-conforming ways as you said on your blog, will be our inspiration to continue our lives without his physical presence. So we have to continue that wonderful human nature of Dan's, in a loving honor of Dan, our memories of what a genuine man and friend is.
My son BJ is coming in from Chicago on Tuesday for Dan's celebration, we will be there. I had just seen Dan last week as we have always been in touch over all of these years. More so recently in the last 3 weeks, he has been a great support for me as my father is very ill and expected to pass any day. Dan was going to be looking after my apt and cat while I was away in Illinois when my father passes. Strange how life goes from day to day, the unexpected are the hardest on us that make us stop and look at ourselves to make sure we don't miss out on anything. Meaning take more time for what really are the most important things for us in this world.
I was told that you were seeking photos of Dan, I do have some. Most of them would be with some family things, but enough room in the photos that you could crop him out of them, some have some great faces he was capable of making. A few of him sleeping, crashed really, that conked out position with the head back on the couch, Dan. He had the ability to fall asleep anywhere. Then I have several of events we worked on together, beautiful of course. There are a few from past staff members at XS, those were the days. Just let me know if you would like to have them and I will get them to you Jeremy.
I am thinking of you Jeremy, my thoughts are with you. I know that Dan had the greatest respect for you and loved you very much. Let's all carry on his great memories and share his wit and life in the rest of our lives. Dan would want us to be happy, remembering him, laughing about him and learning from him. As his sister Debbie said, he would be annoyed by too many tears, he would want us to be happy and keep on living.
We will see you on Tuesday Jeremy, please do let me know if there is anything that I can do. My contact information is below for you. Warm hugs and thoughts are with you.
Love, Kathy Haverkamp & BJ Haverkamp
Design Coordinator
All Seasons Event Rental
My son BJ is coming in from Chicago on Tuesday for Dan's celebration, we will be there. I had just seen Dan last week as we have always been in touch over all of these years. More so recently in the last 3 weeks, he has been a great support for me as my father is very ill and expected to pass any day. Dan was going to be looking after my apt and cat while I was away in Illinois when my father passes. Strange how life goes from day to day, the unexpected are the hardest on us that make us stop and look at ourselves to make sure we don't miss out on anything. Meaning take more time for what really are the most important things for us in this world.
I was told that you were seeking photos of Dan, I do have some. Most of them would be with some family things, but enough room in the photos that you could crop him out of them, some have some great faces he was capable of making. A few of him sleeping, crashed really, that conked out position with the head back on the couch, Dan. He had the ability to fall asleep anywhere. Then I have several of events we worked on together, beautiful of course. There are a few from past staff members at XS, those were the days. Just let me know if you would like to have them and I will get them to you Jeremy.
I am thinking of you Jeremy, my thoughts are with you. I know that Dan had the greatest respect for you and loved you very much. Let's all carry on his great memories and share his wit and life in the rest of our lives. Dan would want us to be happy, remembering him, laughing about him and learning from him. As his sister Debbie said, he would be annoyed by too many tears, he would want us to be happy and keep on living.
We will see you on Tuesday Jeremy, please do let me know if there is anything that I can do. My contact information is below for you. Warm hugs and thoughts are with you.
Love, Kathy Haverkamp & BJ Haverkamp
Design Coordinator
All Seasons Event Rental
Rebecca Morrison
Thank you for letting me join the tributes to Dan Mayo.
I see among the blog posts others who, like me, also appreciated the
professionalism and candor of Danny Mayo, and whose events and
productions benefited from his involvement. He commanded a rare
combination of creative vision, technical knowledge, and the ability to
be practical, yet effective. Both newbie and veteran producers learned
when they worked with Danny.
My deepest sympathies to his family, colleagues and his legion of
friends.
He will be missed terribly.
Rebecca Morrison
I see among the blog posts others who, like me, also appreciated the
professionalism and candor of Danny Mayo, and whose events and
productions benefited from his involvement. He commanded a rare
combination of creative vision, technical knowledge, and the ability to
be practical, yet effective. Both newbie and veteran producers learned
when they worked with Danny.
My deepest sympathies to his family, colleagues and his legion of
friends.
He will be missed terribly.
Rebecca Morrison
Deb Churchill
With a tear in my eye, a heavy heart and smile on my face, my thoughts drift through memories of Danny.
I remember when he bought his house and was constantly moving things around, making tables out of cardboard tubes and carefully arranging his treasured album collection. He loved music and loved it even more on an LP. Someone will be very honored to catalog that collection with as much passion as he had. Of course you might have a very sore back after moving them though. He told me once, but you have to let me know the total count!
I will remember the blue eyes, somewhat mischievous smile, great laugh and sometimes interesting choice of clothes. There wasn’t anything like watching Danny tell a story or get into a conversation so intently that his head would shake back and forth and his knee would start popping with excitement. One time he was in the moment talking to my sister and I, and his response to something I had said was “Marcus Welby” which to him meant “might as well be.” We have never forgotten that and use it to this day, always with a smile and a laugh.
Dan hired me as a stagehand the very first year Sandstone opened in 1984 when I thought I would just be a ticket taker. He saw my true inner self and potential. He mentored me, supported me, encouraged me and was crucial in the direction of my career. My passion for the entertainment business and my drive to make connections is a result of the impact of my dear friend who yes, was a workaholic with a passion. I would always tell him to slow down, take time for Dan and enjoy life; he would always agree but seemed to never follow through.
Dan was the “King of Froof” and damn good at it, but he has put up his last truss, last lamp, last gel and he is at peace lighting up God’s sky with his special gift. I will cherish those 27 years of memories and friendship and hold him in my heart always. I love you Dan Mayo!
Deb Churchill
I remember when he bought his house and was constantly moving things around, making tables out of cardboard tubes and carefully arranging his treasured album collection. He loved music and loved it even more on an LP. Someone will be very honored to catalog that collection with as much passion as he had. Of course you might have a very sore back after moving them though. He told me once, but you have to let me know the total count!
I will remember the blue eyes, somewhat mischievous smile, great laugh and sometimes interesting choice of clothes. There wasn’t anything like watching Danny tell a story or get into a conversation so intently that his head would shake back and forth and his knee would start popping with excitement. One time he was in the moment talking to my sister and I, and his response to something I had said was “Marcus Welby” which to him meant “might as well be.” We have never forgotten that and use it to this day, always with a smile and a laugh.
Dan hired me as a stagehand the very first year Sandstone opened in 1984 when I thought I would just be a ticket taker. He saw my true inner self and potential. He mentored me, supported me, encouraged me and was crucial in the direction of my career. My passion for the entertainment business and my drive to make connections is a result of the impact of my dear friend who yes, was a workaholic with a passion. I would always tell him to slow down, take time for Dan and enjoy life; he would always agree but seemed to never follow through.
Dan was the “King of Froof” and damn good at it, but he has put up his last truss, last lamp, last gel and he is at peace lighting up God’s sky with his special gift. I will cherish those 27 years of memories and friendship and hold him in my heart always. I love you Dan Mayo!
Deb Churchill
Dan Mayo Memorial Funds
The family suggests that in lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Dan Mayo Memorial Fund at either:
Ronald McDonald House Charities of Kansas City
2502 Cherry Street
Kansas City, Missouri 64108
or online at www.rmhckc.org
or
University of Kansas Hospital
Cardiac Unit
2330 Shawnee Mission Parkway, Suite #302
Westwood, Kansas 66205
Ronald McDonald House Charities of Kansas City
2502 Cherry Street
Kansas City, Missouri 64108
or online at www.rmhckc.org
or
University of Kansas Hospital
Cardiac Unit
2330 Shawnee Mission Parkway, Suite #302
Westwood, Kansas 66205
Danny's Obituary in the KC Star
Danny's Obituary in the KC Star
DANIEL EDWARD MAYO
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Daniel Edward Mayo, 59, passed away March 13, 2011. Interment will be 3:30 p.m. Tuesday, March 22, at Pleasant View Cemetery, 61st and Quivira Rd., Shawnee, Kan. There will be a Celebration of Life Event for Danny from 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, March 22, at The Midland Theater, 1228 Main Street, Kansas City, Mo. The family suggests that in lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Dan Mayo Memorial Fund at either The Ronald McDonald House of Kansas City Missouri or the KU Medical Center Cardiac Unit. Danny was born at Camp Atterbury, Ind., on Feb. 20, 1952, to Mildred JoAnn (Borland) and Joseph Lloyd Mayo. He attended Elementary and High School in Webster Groves, Mo., and graduated from Shawnee Mission North High School with the class of 1970. He was awarded the Order of the Arrow as a Boy Scout. Danny started his career in entertainment as a high school sophomore when he and some friends began producing 60s style light shows for local rock bands in St. Louis and Kansas City. He studied radio and television production at the University of Kansas and graduated in 1975 with a Bachelor of Arts degree. Danny's career in the entertainment industry included a variety of jobs ranging from lighting director and road manager for music artists, managing various venues, to designing and installing stage sets for all types of performances and corporate functions. Danny is survived by his parents, Joe and JoAnn of Shawnee; his brother, Michael and his wife Megan (McMahon) Mayo of Independence, Mo., and their children Rachael Mayo of Raytown, Mo., Michelle Zastrow and husband Dan of Independence, Mo., Kelly Stoll and husband Joseph and daughter Gwendolyn of Rota, Spain, TJ Mayo of Guam, and Erin Noah and husband Mike and daughters Lillian and Arianna of Independence; his sister, Deborah Dooley and her husband Jack of Blue Springs, Mo., and their children Brett Dooley of Tempe, Ariz., Eva Dooley of Seattle, Wash., and Henry Dooley of Atlanta, Ga. Online condolences may be expressed at www.amosfamily.com Arr. The Amos Family Chapel of Shawnee, (913) 631- 5566. The Amos Family, 10901 Johnson Dr, 913-631-5566
Published in Kansas City Star on March 17, 2011
DANIEL EDWARD MAYO
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Daniel Edward Mayo, 59, passed away March 13, 2011. Interment will be 3:30 p.m. Tuesday, March 22, at Pleasant View Cemetery, 61st and Quivira Rd., Shawnee, Kan. There will be a Celebration of Life Event for Danny from 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, March 22, at The Midland Theater, 1228 Main Street, Kansas City, Mo. The family suggests that in lieu of flowers donations can be made to the Dan Mayo Memorial Fund at either The Ronald McDonald House of Kansas City Missouri or the KU Medical Center Cardiac Unit. Danny was born at Camp Atterbury, Ind., on Feb. 20, 1952, to Mildred JoAnn (Borland) and Joseph Lloyd Mayo. He attended Elementary and High School in Webster Groves, Mo., and graduated from Shawnee Mission North High School with the class of 1970. He was awarded the Order of the Arrow as a Boy Scout. Danny started his career in entertainment as a high school sophomore when he and some friends began producing 60s style light shows for local rock bands in St. Louis and Kansas City. He studied radio and television production at the University of Kansas and graduated in 1975 with a Bachelor of Arts degree. Danny's career in the entertainment industry included a variety of jobs ranging from lighting director and road manager for music artists, managing various venues, to designing and installing stage sets for all types of performances and corporate functions. Danny is survived by his parents, Joe and JoAnn of Shawnee; his brother, Michael and his wife Megan (McMahon) Mayo of Independence, Mo., and their children Rachael Mayo of Raytown, Mo., Michelle Zastrow and husband Dan of Independence, Mo., Kelly Stoll and husband Joseph and daughter Gwendolyn of Rota, Spain, TJ Mayo of Guam, and Erin Noah and husband Mike and daughters Lillian and Arianna of Independence; his sister, Deborah Dooley and her husband Jack of Blue Springs, Mo., and their children Brett Dooley of Tempe, Ariz., Eva Dooley of Seattle, Wash., and Henry Dooley of Atlanta, Ga. Online condolences may be expressed at www.amosfamily.com Arr. The Amos Family Chapel of Shawnee, (913) 631- 5566. The Amos Family, 10901 Johnson Dr, 913-631-5566
Published in Kansas City Star on March 17, 2011
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Drew Loschke
Jeremy,
Found myself quite choked up about this. Not sure if it was the passing of a legend or the distance I've been able to place between myself and death; I imagine it was a combination of both. I started at DSS without a clue as to what I was doing, thankfully you had a plan for me that has greatly affected my life. The entire DSS family has contributed to me not amounting to a complete failure and for that I am ever grateful. I definitely owe much to Dan Mayo.
I ended up sitting in Dan's office while he and were gone to Daytona. He was as confused as I was upon his return because neither of us had met. I distinctly remember him wearing his pseudo-velvet maroon turtle-neck when he returned and thinking that it was quite comical attire, I'm sure he felt that way about my jeans. He would eventually crack jokes at the acrobatics it must have taken to get into them.
In the beginning, and quite possibly the end, I was very lost in the whole spectacle of the production world and how everything worked. I'm quite sure there were many times where my questions and/or requests/pleas for help were rather bemusing to him, but he was never condescending. Did he poke fun? Yes, as many would and it was rightfully deserved, but I could always count on him to help me and truly teach me. It was not burdensome for him to do so, but he was happy to show me the way and to go the extra distance to make sure I fully understood.
I had a conversation the other day with Goolsby about a few people he was very close with and how amazing it was the extent in which he effected their lives. The more we dug into the conversation we realized that we were among this group and that it consistently grew the more we talked about it. Dan had a way of taking anyone and everyone around him under his wing. He was not a "know-it-all" he just so happened to know-it-all, like nobody else I've ever come in contact with. He did it from the heart and with great joy.
As it has been said by many, he could do anything and most times he did and he loved it. I can't tell you how much I believe he loved his job and more importantly the people he worked with. Countless times he was the last person at the office working away. I think he did it because he loved it more than anything else he could possibly be doing. The entire job outlook for him, if I had to guess, was that this was his puzzle, his Erector Set and he wanted to take what was given to him and see how much better he could make it. I believe he always found a way to make it better, whether that was with a stage-design or with a person.
DSS, the production industry and anyone that knew Dan lost a great man. I am truly saddened and he will be greatly missed.
With Deepest Regrets,
Drew Loschke
Found myself quite choked up about this. Not sure if it was the passing of a legend or the distance I've been able to place between myself and death; I imagine it was a combination of both. I started at DSS without a clue as to what I was doing, thankfully you had a plan for me that has greatly affected my life. The entire DSS family has contributed to me not amounting to a complete failure and for that I am ever grateful. I definitely owe much to Dan Mayo.
I ended up sitting in Dan's office while he and were gone to Daytona. He was as confused as I was upon his return because neither of us had met. I distinctly remember him wearing his pseudo-velvet maroon turtle-neck when he returned and thinking that it was quite comical attire, I'm sure he felt that way about my jeans. He would eventually crack jokes at the acrobatics it must have taken to get into them.
In the beginning, and quite possibly the end, I was very lost in the whole spectacle of the production world and how everything worked. I'm quite sure there were many times where my questions and/or requests/pleas for help were rather bemusing to him, but he was never condescending. Did he poke fun? Yes, as many would and it was rightfully deserved, but I could always count on him to help me and truly teach me. It was not burdensome for him to do so, but he was happy to show me the way and to go the extra distance to make sure I fully understood.
I had a conversation the other day with Goolsby about a few people he was very close with and how amazing it was the extent in which he effected their lives. The more we dug into the conversation we realized that we were among this group and that it consistently grew the more we talked about it. Dan had a way of taking anyone and everyone around him under his wing. He was not a "know-it-all" he just so happened to know-it-all, like nobody else I've ever come in contact with. He did it from the heart and with great joy.
As it has been said by many, he could do anything and most times he did and he loved it. I can't tell you how much I believe he loved his job and more importantly the people he worked with. Countless times he was the last person at the office working away. I think he did it because he loved it more than anything else he could possibly be doing. The entire job outlook for him, if I had to guess, was that this was his puzzle, his Erector Set and he wanted to take what was given to him and see how much better he could make it. I believe he always found a way to make it better, whether that was with a stage-design or with a person.
DSS, the production industry and anyone that knew Dan lost a great man. I am truly saddened and he will be greatly missed.
With Deepest Regrets,
Drew Loschke
Photo of the day
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| This photo of Danny, taken at Jeremy Dixon's Wedding in 2010, is a true representation of his character. Danny was a behind the scenes kind of guy, but when put in the spotlight he was goofy, witty and always lighting up the room. |
Margaret Ragan
I've known Dan since our Senior year in high school, when he dated my best friend, Donna for most of the year. He went to North, we went to West. He was the nicest guy. I'd run into him at Freedom Palace and Cowtown Ballroom over the years, then we lost touch. Then around 1990, some mail for him was wrongly delivered to my house, letting me know we shared the same address, exactly 1 block apart! My husband and I walked it over to him...and we've been in sporadic touch ever since. The Cowtown Ballroom, Sweet Jesus movie and events got us communicating again, more often, and I'm glad. Dan was always so kind, interesting and fun. I last "spoke" w/ him via Facebook right after his birthday. This world has lost a beautiful soul. I miss you.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Jim Mooney
Jeremy: I knew Danny for about 26 years, he and I worked on the Ballet Ball and many other events together he was a good friend and will be missed by me a lot of folks around the country I'm sure, he didn't say much, but when he did it was worth listing too, he was just at my office about a week ago and picked up a circle I made for him, I was so sorry to hear he had passed away, he never talked about himself, so I never really knew him, only to talk about work. I'm sorry for your lose. Jim
Mark Rowlands
Very sad to hear. I never met Danny, but through the business we did together over phone and email I had this sense that he was an honest, forthright gentleman and for some reason I counted him as one on a handfull of contacts I would truly enjoy meeting in person.
My condolences to all freinds and family. May he rest in peace in the giant production in the heavens.
Mark Rowlands and Lightbroker.com
Mike G
Jeremy,
I am very sorry for you loss. Dan was a great guy and always there whenever I needed anything. He would even offer suggestions to me whenever I needed advice for a show even if I wasn’t using him for anything.
He was one of the first people I met in KC from the industry when I moved here 10 years ago. He will be sadly missed.
Michael E. Garner
Regional Manager
Visual Aids Electronics, Corp.
RMC
Jeremy – this is very sad news. The staff and volunteers here at Ronald McDonald House Charities will miss working with Dan…
Holly Buckendahl, CEO/Executive Director
Ronald McDonald House Charities
Gary Heise
Danny Mayo was one of the most customer-focused persons I've worked with in the event production business. When Danny was involved with an event our company was in charge of, I knew he would communicate with us honestly with any issues and that he would take a "find the solution" approach rather than a "this is a problem" approach. He certainly knew his business well. While our first, and most important, thoughts and prayers go to Danny's family, it would also be a safe statement to say the industry has lost a real pro and he will be missed.
Gary Heise
Premier Sports Management
Mich Warnock
Jeremy,
I want to express my condolences. I know Danny was a part big part of your DSS family. I am always brought back to reality when something unexpected like this happens. Having just seen him, and having kind words, on Friday now seems somehow to be a sign of some sort. Danny and I have been friends since the middle 70’s when he was production manager for the Ozark Mountain Daredevils, and I was a sound company owner. I thought he was a bit demanding at the time, but later realized that it was because he knew what he was doing, and I was new, and had no idea what I was doing. He was a great human being, and will be missed by all. Keep me informed about arrangements. Mick
Jaimie Clark
Jeremy-
Just heard about Dan, and I am shocked. He was such a great man, and he will truly be missed. My thoughts are with you and your team, and his family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you and the group, or his family.
Much love!
Jamie
Just heard about Dan, and I am shocked. He was such a great man, and he will truly be missed. My thoughts are with you and your team, and his family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you and the group, or his family.
Much love!
Jamie
Lenny
Jeremy,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. The suddenness of it must have been quite “shocking”. If I can do anything/be there in anyway for you, please let me know (phone call, come up and hang out with you for couple days, whatever you need).
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your office, and his family & friends.
Love you bud.
Len
Brian
Jerm, I just got word about this from Peggy. I’m so sorry to hear about Dan’s passing. He was one cool cat
Let me know if there’s anything I can help with.
-B
Let me know if there’s anything I can help with.
-B
Carol Baker
Jeremy,
This is certainly sad news. I worked with Dan for a number of years with various events through KCP&L. As the key sponsor of the Plaza lighting ceremony, I knew I would usually see him running around (much like I was doing coordinating our employee volunteers and the VIP tent), but he always stopped a moment to give me a hug and ask how I was doing. At the end of the evening, we'd wave and say "See you next Thanksgiving!" I'm so sorry to hear about his death. Thanks for the notice.
Carol Baker
This is certainly sad news. I worked with Dan for a number of years with various events through KCP&L. As the key sponsor of the Plaza lighting ceremony, I knew I would usually see him running around (much like I was doing coordinating our employee volunteers and the VIP tent), but he always stopped a moment to give me a hug and ask how I was doing. At the end of the evening, we'd wave and say "See you next Thanksgiving!" I'm so sorry to hear about his death. Thanks for the notice.
Carol Baker
Mike Young
I am so very sorry to hear about Danny. I just met with him and Kevin on Friday. I am stunned, and deeply sadden for his families loss, as well as yours. I know he has been with you for a very long time.
Sincerely,
Mike Young
General Manager
Independence Events Center
Pete Lund
So very sorry to hear
Dan was the first person I met from DSS Orlando 2000
I will think of him always as a great person who truly loved what he did
Somehow today the world moves slower
Pete
Dan was the first person I met from DSS Orlando 2000
I will think of him always as a great person who truly loved what he did
Somehow today the world moves slower
Pete
Deb
| Jeremy I am devastated! My heart is breaking! I will try to write something much more profound than that tonight and get it to you. Man the tears come and go. I just don't understand. |
Chris Browne
Jeremy-
Sorry to hear the news. I have fond memories of Dan as well.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and company.
Sincerely,
CB
Christopher M. Browne
General Manager
Kansas City T-Bones Baseball Club
Michael B
Jeremy…words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of Dan Mayo to his immediate family, his work family, and to our industry. He was one of the most kind, caring, and professional people I have had the pleasure of working with.
When Dan was on the job, you always knew it was going to get done professionally and to a level of quality unmatched by others. His temperament and calm demeanor were always what kept us comfortable on site when things got crazy. He will be missed…
When Dan was on the job, you always knew it was going to get done professionally and to a level of quality unmatched by others. His temperament and calm demeanor were always what kept us comfortable on site when things got crazy. He will be missed…
Jim McClellan
Needless to say I was shocked when I received the call from Kevin this morning informing me of Dan’s passing. I can only imagine the shock and deep sadness you are all going thru right now. I know what an integral part of both your professional and personal life Dan had become. Even though I admit I don’t know as much about Dan’s personal life as I should have, I too feel a big hole in my heart this morning. Dan and I go back close to 30 years, all the way back to my early days in the business and his at SECT. He was always and genuine soul, a pleasure to do business with, and a truly dedicated professional on site, which was one of the original reasons I became so found of working with you guys. Of course now that I’ve gotten to know you and you have people like Kevin on board that will never change but it will also never quite be the same you know. I’m sure in time we’ll carry on as normal but for now we morn the passing of a truly caring gentleman who we shall all miss greatly.
Of course it goes without saying if there is anything I can do to help please let me know and please keep us updated on details as they develop.
Brent
Jeremy,
I'm so sorry to hear this awful news. I think you know Dan meant a lot to me, he was a friend and mentor and we spent an awful lot of time together. Please keep me posted on services, I'd really like to be there as he meant a great deal to me.
I don't think I've ever known a less lazy person than Dan. He was the personification of pride in his work, and every client he ever had knew it, that's why he was the "man who lights KC" for so many years. Everybody who worked with Dan knows he had no tolerance for stupidity or laziness, and to me this is what made him the best kind of mentor. Dan was one of those who would give you the tools you needed and some idea where we were headed and set you off and running. But he sure wasn't going to hold your hand. Dan always forced you to work things out on your own and hold your work to a higher standard than you were used to. If you put in a half-ass effort and came back to him, he'd always put you right back to work until you got it right. Heck, even if you worked really hard, you'd usually end up doing it again. Nothing was ever "good enough" for Dan, it had to be perfect. I think we've all had that moment setting up a show with Dan where, after a few hours, you start looking around, thinking "this looks pretty good, I think we're about done here" and then Dan would stay overnight tweaking every element and making it a whole lot more than "pretty good". You often had to force Dan to stop once in a while to eat something or get a little sleep, as these were things to which Dan gave very little creedence. He really lived for his work. Its very easy in our business to start approaching every show like its just another day and trying the same couple of tricks every day, but after all his years in lighting, Dan still came to every single show, no matter how big or small with new ideas to make it unique and exciting. I find it very hard to imagine live events in our family and our city without Danny running around behind the scenes orchestrating it all. He was a singular character that could never be replaced. Its a good thing he taught so many of us young guys so much, now its up to all us of to keep his spirit alive.
Best to everyone.
Brent
Big Dave
I am truly saddened and shocked. Danny was a mentor to me as well. From my first jobs with you at DSS I was a stage production novice in regards to staging truss etc. I wanted to learn and Danny was eager to teach me and was always kind and not condescending to me. I told Dan I would always be happy to work with him and we were often the last guys loading a truck together. I will miss him greatly. His wit and creativity was always an inspiration. Danny was a great and creative sole and KC, and the US for that matter, is now less for this loss.
Please let me know about his funeral and times. I am going to be out of town this week, but I would like to attend if I can.
Thank you
Dave
Jennean
Susan Duryea forwarded you email to me. I'm so sorry Danny has passed. It makes my heart ache and my soul sad that he's not in this world any longer.
Good thoughts and prayers to you and for Danny. I know he means so much to you. Your letter was beautiful and moving.
Would you please include Susan and I in any more updates? If there are services I want to be there.
My heart goes out to you,
Jennean
Good thoughts and prayers to you and for Danny. I know he means so much to you. Your letter was beautiful and moving.
Would you please include Susan and I in any more updates? If there are services I want to be there.
My heart goes out to you,
Jennean
David
Jeremy,
Thank you for sending this. I am stunned to hear this news, not because we have an upcoming show with you, but because of what an exceptional person Danny was to work with. Dan tried to call me last week. I was on my cell when he called my work number. I didn’t get him called back. I’m so sad I didn’t.
My thoughts are certainly with you and all who worked with him. Your attached letter described the person I’ve come to know these past five years.
Thank you for sending this. I am stunned to hear this news, not because we have an upcoming show with you, but because of what an exceptional person Danny was to work with. Dan tried to call me last week. I was on my cell when he called my work number. I didn’t get him called back. I’m so sad I didn’t.
My thoughts are certainly with you and all who worked with him. Your attached letter described the person I’ve come to know these past five years.
Peggy R.
Jeremy,
I am so very sorry to hear about Dan. It was truly an honor to know him and to work beside him.
In times of distress, a smile, a few words or a hug from Dan was always so reassuring.
Dan made the good times even greater and tough times seem not quite so bad.
He was a gentleman indeed and made me feel like a life-time friend.
It was always a pleasure to see Dan and I will certainly miss him on our events.
My love to you and the DSS family – my prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Peggy
I am so very sorry to hear about Dan. It was truly an honor to know him and to work beside him.
In times of distress, a smile, a few words or a hug from Dan was always so reassuring.
Dan made the good times even greater and tough times seem not quite so bad.
He was a gentleman indeed and made me feel like a life-time friend.
It was always a pleasure to see Dan and I will certainly miss him on our events.
My love to you and the DSS family – my prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Peggy
Matt Hunt
Jeremy,
We are so sorry to hear about Dan. Dan was highly regarded and respected in our profession and this industry suffered a great loss with his passing. Although I didn’t know him as well as some in my office, he was always a pleasure to work with and talk to. He absolutely brought his high standards and professionalism to every event he worked on. Please know that our prayers are with Dan’s family and all those he left behind.
Thanks,
Matt Hunt
We are so sorry to hear about Dan. Dan was highly regarded and respected in our profession and this industry suffered a great loss with his passing. Although I didn’t know him as well as some in my office, he was always a pleasure to work with and talk to. He absolutely brought his high standards and professionalism to every event he worked on. Please know that our prayers are with Dan’s family and all those he left behind.
Thanks,
Matt Hunt
Uncle Ron and Aunt Peg
Hi Germ
I am very sad to here about Dan passing; he will be missed very much by everyone. If there is any thing we can do please let us know.
Uncle Ron & Aunt Peg
I am very sad to here about Dan passing; he will be missed very much by everyone. If there is any thing we can do please let us know.
Uncle Ron & Aunt Peg
Ken Gillespie
I am so sorry for yours and our loss of Danny. He was the first A/V guy I met when we with Global Spectrum and the Overland Park Convention arrived in Kansas. Since that meeting we have become very good friends and partners with Danny and DSS. He has brought some unbelievable lighting expertise to every event the he and DSS has brought to the OP Convention Center.
I am going miss him dearly along with our entire staff. Please let me know if there is anything you need from us.
If you could get me his address we would love to send his family a gift of our condolences.
Please let me know when the services will be.
Thanks Jeremy and God bless.
Ken Gillespie
I am going miss him dearly along with our entire staff. Please let me know if there is anything you need from us.
If you could get me his address we would love to send his family a gift of our condolences.
Please let me know when the services will be.
Thanks Jeremy and God bless.
Ken Gillespie
DJ Kirby
Please let me know where to send flowers. Also I would like to know the time and location of services. He was an incredible person with a passion for what he did. His attitude was always positive and when ever I saw him present at events, I knew they would be executed perfectly and that the events must be important ones. I am saddend and in shock.
Sincerely,
Kirby Ham (DJ KIRBY)ON-AIR MIX SHOW PERSONALITY & PRODUCER for
99.7 GEN-X RADIO KANSAS CITY and
106.5 THE WOLF KANSAS CITY
Larry Wheeler
I am so sorry for yours and our loss of Danny. He was the first A/V guy I met when we with Global Spectrum and the Overland Park Convention arrived in Kansas. Since that meeting we have become very good friends and partners with Danny and DSS. He has brought some unbelievable lighting expertise to every event the he and DSS has brought to the OP Convention Center.
I am going miss him dearly along with our entire staff. Please let me know if there is anything you need from us.
If you could get me his address we would love to send his family a gift of our condolences.
Please let me know when the services will be.
Thanks Jeremy and God bless.
Ken Gillespie
I am going miss him dearly along with our entire staff. Please let me know if there is anything you need from us.
If you could get me his address we would love to send his family a gift of our condolences.
Please let me know when the services will be.
Thanks Jeremy and God bless.
Ken Gillespie
Susan D
Thank you so much for including me on this email. you clearly know how I felt about danny. I am still trying to wrap my head and heavy heart around this. Please let me know when the services will be. Am on a show but will check email. I am so sorry for your loss Jeremy. Susan d
Chris Stewart
Hey Jeremy....
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Danny's family...and all of you at DSS. Such a terrible loss.....
Chris Stewart
Harvest Productions
Harvest Productions
Bob rogers
Jeremy,
My many condolences on the passing of Danny. I have been acquainted to him for numerous years, He was always great to work around and with, and as many of our peers would say he was the first to share with you his knowledge of the right way to do things. I have always tried to follow his example. He will be missed.
--
Bob RogersOperations Manager Visual Aids Electronics Corp.
C-Sprehe
Jeremy,
I'm so sorry and sad to hear about our friend Dan. I know he is a part of your family and will be dearly missed. He was a mentor to me and taught me so much about life and working hard. I would appreciate any information you can send my way about the funeral arrangements, etc.
I hope you're well otherwise old friend. Hope to see you soon. Sincerely, Corey Sprehe
Donnie Chmielowiec
Dear Sir, I had the pleasure of knowing and working with Dan Mayo ever since I moved to Kansas City about 15 years ago. If anyone were to ask me who the brightest star in the Kansas City AV world was- it would be Dan Mayo. Regardless of the outfit he worked for or the show he was responsible for, he was the gold standard for the a/v industry in Kansas City and the surrounding area. His professionalism, candor, and sense of humor raised the bar for all of us. As for my own goals in the industry, they were simply to be half as good as Dan Mayo. Respectfully submitted and with warmest personal regards, Donnie Chmielowiec Happy (fill in the blank) Day. D.C. Ski |
Dustin Roberson
He ate batteries for breakfast and loved the Pet Shop Boys.. Worked my butt off many a time and I'm thankful for it.
Heck of a dude.
Dustin Roberson
Production Supervisor
Voodoo Lounge
Michael Lintecum
Jeremy,
I am so very, very sad to hear of Danny’s passing. He was such a professional...and such a good friend of the years to me and my work as an event director...please accept my sympathy. I was working with Danny on Truman Medical Centers Fashion For A Cause coming up in May....this is so sad. I will miss him so very much. I will be in touch....
Michael
Michael Lintecum
Lintecum Group
I am so very, very sad to hear of Danny’s passing. He was such a professional...and such a good friend of the years to me and my work as an event director...please accept my sympathy. I was working with Danny on Truman Medical Centers Fashion For A Cause coming up in May....this is so sad. I will miss him so very much. I will be in touch....
Michael
Michael Lintecum
Lintecum Group
Geep Parker
I am stunned and saddened to hear of the passing of Danny, He was a wonderful person and a true stand up guy, my condolences go out to all his family and friends.
I will hold in my heart many fond memories of the days when he and I bounced around the US
Another good man gone.
Geep Parker
Production Coordinator
Mindy Setzer
Jeremy and DSS Family~
Word could not express the shock I felt when I heard this sad news today. My prayers and thoughts are with you all...
Danny was one of the kindest men. I always knew my event was going to be the Best, when Dan was there. He brought a calm to me, when the intensity of the Event Business got so crazy. I always could count on him, no matter what!!!
I still have a orange measuring stick he bought me, because I never knew how long the room was. He would ask for dimensions and I would be like " You thing you could come measure it for me?". He was so excited to give me that gift.....it had a bow on it!! : )
He will be greatly missed. I am so sad : ) Peace be with you all during this hard time.
Peace,
Mindy
Have a fantastic day!
M Events
Mindy Ramirez-Setser C.M.P./Owner
David Scheirman (sound engineer, Carlo Sound, Ozark Mtn. Daredevils North American tour 1976-77).
Jeremy,
What a shock, and a sad thing to have happen.
Here’s a brief story for you….
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Around 1976-1977, I had the pleasure of touring on the road with Dan while he was working as the lighting director/production manager for the Ozark Mountain Daredevils. Truckin’ across Canada in the wintertime… suffering through the daily incompetencies of local promoters’ reps… tracking down lost UPS shipments and late electricians and all the rest of it… Dan Mayo never lost his wry sense of humor.
On that particular tour, Dan carried a miniature, plastic, battery-powered chain saw in a custom, hand-crafted leather holster. Seems as if that pouch may have been part of one of the old discarded harmonica belts used by Steve Cash (a Daredevils band member).
Whenever a grumpy local union stage hand, a belligerent auditorium manager or an un-cooperative bus mechanic tried to make an issue out of some trivial thing, Dan would rise up to his full height, raise his ever-present dark shades onto his forehead, stare the guy down, get right in his face, just inches away… and then with a snarl that turned into a “gotcha” smile, he’d pull out that tiny, noisy toy chain-saw to make his point, and lighten the mood for everyone around.
He was a real “king of the road”, who knew how to make it all happen for the Daredevils. He loved the stage, the audience, the touring life, and most of all… the music. He will be sorely missed by all who knew and worked with him.
David Scheirman
Vice President, Tour Sound
JBL Professional
(sound engineer, Carlo Sound, Ozark Mtn. Daredevils North American tour 1976-77).
What a shock, and a sad thing to have happen.
Here’s a brief story for you….
----
Around 1976-1977, I had the pleasure of touring on the road with Dan while he was working as the lighting director/production manager for the Ozark Mountain Daredevils. Truckin’ across Canada in the wintertime… suffering through the daily incompetencies of local promoters’ reps… tracking down lost UPS shipments and late electricians and all the rest of it… Dan Mayo never lost his wry sense of humor.
On that particular tour, Dan carried a miniature, plastic, battery-powered chain saw in a custom, hand-crafted leather holster. Seems as if that pouch may have been part of one of the old discarded harmonica belts used by Steve Cash (a Daredevils band member).
Whenever a grumpy local union stage hand, a belligerent auditorium manager or an un-cooperative bus mechanic tried to make an issue out of some trivial thing, Dan would rise up to his full height, raise his ever-present dark shades onto his forehead, stare the guy down, get right in his face, just inches away… and then with a snarl that turned into a “gotcha” smile, he’d pull out that tiny, noisy toy chain-saw to make his point, and lighten the mood for everyone around.
He was a real “king of the road”, who knew how to make it all happen for the Daredevils. He loved the stage, the audience, the touring life, and most of all… the music. He will be sorely missed by all who knew and worked with him.
David Scheirman
Vice President, Tour Sound
JBL Professional
(sound engineer, Carlo Sound, Ozark Mtn. Daredevils North American tour 1976-77).
Kim Hoffman
Jeremy,
Thank you for this beautifully written Memorial, you captured Dan's true being- he would be pleased ~
Dan was so special to me, when I think of the more than a decade that we worked side by side to produce Fashion Shows at the Music Hall and Midland Theatre it is no wonder we became so close.
His level of creativity and imagination was so far out there that I knew I trusted him when he would describe a set or lighting for a scene, and it sounded so bizarre...but because it was Dan I would say "let's go with it," it ended up being my favorite segment of the Show and he Loved hearing the crowds response and me smiling from ear to ear! He loved his work...he gave every show his all. he was a consummate professional!
Sincerely,
Kim Hoffman
Kim Hoffman
President
Hoffman International
Michael Waggoner
Jeremy,
Danny worked for me at Cowtown Ballroom and of course in all the other ventures we did from the Midland Theatre to Arrowhead Stadium back in the 1970’s. I spoke with him last year and he sounded super. I was saddened to hear about his passing. Did he have a family, kids, etc? If so could you send me the address so I could send them something?
Thanks,
Michael
Michael Waggoner
Nassau Broadcasting - Vermont
107.1 FRANK, 100.9 FROGGY, 92.1 MOO, WSNO, WIKE
802-476-4168 office; 802-479-5893 fax; 802-522-4752 cell
Danny worked for me at Cowtown Ballroom and of course in all the other ventures we did from the Midland Theatre to Arrowhead Stadium back in the 1970’s. I spoke with him last year and he sounded super. I was saddened to hear about his passing. Did he have a family, kids, etc? If so could you send me the address so I could send them something?
Thanks,
Michael
Michael Waggoner
107.1 FRANK, 100.9 FROGGY, 92.1 MOO, WSNO, WIKE
802-476-4168 office; 802-479-5893 fax; 802-522-4752 cell
Larry Tucker, Partner in Crime
Jeremy, Thank you very much for getting me the infomation on Danny's passing. Danny & I were roomates for most of the years that I was production manager & sound man for the Ozark Mountain Daredevils. I literally spent more time with Dan than I did with my wife in those years. I consider myself very Blessed to have been able to share those times with Dan. His humor & talent kept me going when the road turned rough. Danny's vision as the lighting director for the band was remarkable. He could do more with a few instruments than most people today can do with a truck full of intelligent lighting fixtures. Always a professional committed to seeing the task through, he never let the distractions or challenges of any situation get in the way of a successful show. I know Danny will be missed by everyone he touched through the years. I know I will miss him greatly. I will miss his talent, his dedication, his humor, his smile & his heart. I will always be grateful to have had the opportunity to work with him and to call him my friend. Peace, Larry Tucker |
Amy and Jason
Jeremy,
Jason & I were so sad to hear of Danny’s death, it has really thrown us for a loop. I’m glad to have had a few minutes to talk with him at the Ballet Ball a couple of weeks ago. As always he was putting the finishing touches on the room. We could always count on him to really make our events look great. A consummate professional and great colleague, we will miss him.
If memorial arrangements are made, please keep me in the loop.
Best regards,
Amy
Amy Taylor
Production Manager
Kevin Cassidy
Jeremy,
Nicely said. Ive known Danny for about 30 years. Worked with him in the bar scene in the early 80s at One Block West, The Lone Star, Parody Hall etc. Then at SECT as well
I think the one word the sums up Danny best in my mind is "clogs" He wore them so long they came back in style :-)
Kevin Cassidy
(816) 807 9739 c
ETCP Certified
thoughts
I was saddened to hear about Dan.
I know how close you were.
All of my best wishes to you.
Hopefully, we’ll talk soon under better circumstances.
Wallace Morgan
Principal
Vision Technical Group
Emails.....
Hi Kevin,
So sorry to hear about my old friend Danny.I was his first friend when he came to KC (I think 1969) from St.Louis.
.He walked into Shawnee Mission North with long blond hair almost to his shoulders,& was wearing bell-bottoms,either red,white & blue stripes,or silver with red stripes.He didn't get 20 yards before the "jocks" started in on him.And of course,Danny responded in his way,further escalating the crisis.
Since I had some credibility with the jocks (I had played football & was on the tennis team) & was a "musician/long-hair"also,I jumped in and got them to back off.
He graduated with me from SMN in 1970.We remained friends,though not close friends,throughout all these 40+ years.Anyway,I'll miss him.
So sorry to hear about my old friend Danny.I was his first friend when he came to KC (I think 1969) from St.Louis.
.He walked into Shawnee Mission North with long blond hair almost to his shoulders,& was wearing bell-bottoms,either red,white & blue stripes,or silver with red stripes.He didn't get 20 yards before the "jocks" started in on him.And of course,Danny responded in his way,further escalating the crisis.
Since I had some credibility with the jocks (I had played football & was on the tennis team) & was a "musician/long-hair"also,I jumped in and got them to back off.
He graduated with me from SMN in 1970.We remained friends,though not close friends,throughout all these 40+ years.Anyway,I'll miss him.
Dan..... - Penny Valladares
This is a message I received from Dan in my facebook inbox the day after his birthday on February 20th. There is much irony in the words as he unfortunately was only able to "out maneuver the bastard" for another 3 weeks. Nonetheless, I was happy to see he 'felt the love' from all his friends and reached out to me to talk about it.
"Thanks for keeping me in your thoughts ... I was most gratified to find that there are rather a formidable number of friends who are cheering me on in the footrace with the Reaper ... the sheer volume of greetings yesterday was enough encouragement to inspire one to continue to out maneuver the bastard for years to come ... hope all is well in your world ... that everybody is healthy and prosperous ... all the best, Dan"
My first memory of Dan was when I used to frequent the head shop in Freedom Palace and he was the cute young babe behind the counter showing me pipes and papers, with his long flowing hair and beautiful blue eyes. He was very quiet and contained. Little did I know then that I would get to know him in later years and become good friends with him. He used to come to my house with my niece Kelly and hang out a lot. Even though there were big lapses of time when I didn't see him over the years, he was always warm and friendly when I finally did again. I took the picture of him down on the Plaza at the Art Fair in 2008 when he was running the sound system for the bands and I happened upon him. When I asked if I could take his picture, he said, "Sure" and gave me that warm smile. He was a really great guy and will truly be missed in this circle of friends he had here in KC.
"Shine on, you crazy diamond..."
"Thanks for keeping me in your thoughts ... I was most gratified to find that there are rather a formidable number of friends who are cheering me on in the footrace with the Reaper ... the sheer volume of greetings yesterday was enough encouragement to inspire one to continue to out maneuver the bastard for years to come ... hope all is well in your world ... that everybody is healthy and prosperous ... all the best, Dan"
My first memory of Dan was when I used to frequent the head shop in Freedom Palace and he was the cute young babe behind the counter showing me pipes and papers, with his long flowing hair and beautiful blue eyes. He was very quiet and contained. Little did I know then that I would get to know him in later years and become good friends with him. He used to come to my house with my niece Kelly and hang out a lot. Even though there were big lapses of time when I didn't see him over the years, he was always warm and friendly when I finally did again. I took the picture of him down on the Plaza at the Art Fair in 2008 when he was running the sound system for the bands and I happened upon him. When I asked if I could take his picture, he said, "Sure" and gave me that warm smile. He was a really great guy and will truly be missed in this circle of friends he had here in KC.
"Shine on, you crazy diamond..."
Monday, March 14, 2011
I will miss you friend - John Goolsby
Got the news this evening
And for a minute I was numb
Kinda hit me hard
To hear that you were gone
Things don't always play out
The way we've hoped and prayed
The the front of house seems empty
Without you behind the stage
But I ain't gonna breakdown
Still see you smiling all the way
Seems to me with all your love
My worlds a better place
And I will miss you friend
But there's one thing I know is true
I'd rather known and lost you
Than walked this life without you
For now I ain't gonna worry
Bout hell or heaven's gates
Cause the way I figure things
Is either way we'll meet again
And everyday gets us closer
But until that day is here
I'll have to settle for seein
You in memories that keep you near
But I ain't gonna breakdown
Still see you smiling all the way
Seems to me with all your love
My worlds a better place
And I will miss you friend
But there's one thing I know is true
I'd rather known and lost you
Than walked this life without you
Tonight you're somewhere watching
The ones you loved so dear
So brother I'll apologize
If we can't hold back our tears
So let us raise our voices
Hoping you can hear
A final joke between us
Because we're all still here
I hope I ain't gonna breakdown
Still see you smiling all the way
Seems to me with all your love
My worlds a better place
And I will miss you friend
But there's one thing I know is true
I'd rather known and lost you
Than walked this life without you
John Goolsby
And for a minute I was numb
Kinda hit me hard
To hear that you were gone
Things don't always play out
The way we've hoped and prayed
The the front of house seems empty
Without you behind the stage
But I ain't gonna breakdown
Still see you smiling all the way
Seems to me with all your love
My worlds a better place
And I will miss you friend
But there's one thing I know is true
I'd rather known and lost you
Than walked this life without you
For now I ain't gonna worry
Bout hell or heaven's gates
Cause the way I figure things
Is either way we'll meet again
And everyday gets us closer
But until that day is here
I'll have to settle for seein
You in memories that keep you near
But I ain't gonna breakdown
Still see you smiling all the way
Seems to me with all your love
My worlds a better place
And I will miss you friend
But there's one thing I know is true
I'd rather known and lost you
Than walked this life without you
Tonight you're somewhere watching
The ones you loved so dear
So brother I'll apologize
If we can't hold back our tears
So let us raise our voices
Hoping you can hear
A final joke between us
Because we're all still here
I hope I ain't gonna breakdown
Still see you smiling all the way
Seems to me with all your love
My worlds a better place
And I will miss you friend
But there's one thing I know is true
I'd rather known and lost you
Than walked this life without you
John Goolsby
In remembrance of a True Rockstar, The passing of Daniel E. Mayo
Friends and Family,
It is with great sadness and a heavy heart in which I write this. The DSS family suffered a tragedy yesterday in the passing of Daniel E. Mayo. Dan Mayo, Director of Creative Services for Digital Sound Systems, passed away Sunday morning unexpectedly in his sleep. Dan, who recently celebrated his 59th birthday in February, will be greatly missed. Those who have had the pleasure of knowing Dan understand the great loss to not only his friends and family, but also to the event and entertainment industry in Kansas City.
“Danny”, as he was so affectionately referred to as, was a graduate of the University of Kansas. Dan’s passion for music led him into the entertainment industry during college. Dan dedicated his life to his career. Dan’s list of accomplishments span over 4 decades. His resume includes production managing The Ozark Mountain Daredevils and Martina McBride for years. After coming off the road, Dan’s focus shifted to creating fascinating scenic and lighting designs and managing high profile private and corporate events. Dan’s amazing ability to create stunning visuals and experiences through the use of lighting, were magnificent. Dan was a true master at his craft. In recent years Dan’s career included technical production of the Ballet and Harvest Balls in Kansas City, The 50th annual Grammy Awards party at the Staples center in Los Angeles, as well as numerous fundraisers including Jazoo and Treads and Threads.
I met Dan when I was 13 years old when the company he worked for provided the lighting for numerous television events for my father. Since that time, Danny has been a mentor and a friend who has helped shape me as a person and as a businessman. In my early days of running DSS, I would often overstep my understanding of what the expectations of working in the music industry were and what needed to be delivered. Danny was always the first person to step in and offer me assistance and try to help save me from myself. Of course, it was never without an extended conversation of my shortcomings. Danny was a teacher and a mentor, not just to me, but to all of our staff. His demand for perfection and passion for his craft is what made Danny who he was. He was as unique and eclectic as the lighting designs and stage sets he created.
Danny had an unrivaled sense of wit and mastery of communication. The product of two high school English teachers, Danny was never at a loss for words. Even in times of sadness, Dan had an eloquent way of expressing himself. In a Facebook post that Dan had made supporting a friend who recently suffered a loss, Dan had this to say.
... sorry to hear about that... in truth, I didn't actually discover that I myself was mortal until a few years ago... it only served to piss me off at the time... however, I have discovered that time only manages to ravage those who make the tactical error of acknowledging the damage ... just have to create the illusion that one is too eccentric to pass ... at least that's worked for me up to this point ... at one point , in a moment of exemplary irony, I decided on a suitable epitaph, should the need arise at some far distant moment in the future ... simple but to the point ... "It seemed like a good idea, at the time..." ...would seem to cover a variety of possibilities, don't you think ??
January 25, 2010 at 5:51pm
Yes, Mr. non-conforming, was a member of Facebook.
Danny continued the same support for me personally and the production company that I am so proud to represent today. In October, Danny was a groomsman in my wedding. To say that Danny was important to me and my family is an understatement. Danny spent every Easter, Christmas, and birthday with us.
I am certain that anyone who knows Dan has a similar story to mine. It is no secret as to how he cared for people and how important he was to us. He was a mentor, educator and father figure for many in our company. A person like Dan is never replaced. I ask for your prayers for his family and the DSS family as we try to transition through this difficult loss.
Arrangements are being made and I will send out information as it develops.
With Love and Respect,
Jeremy
President
Digital Sound Systems, Inc.
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